Where the Wild Things Are

-SPOILER ALERT-

Friday while in California, we took just my son to see the new Where the Wild Things Are movie.  I wanted to share my opinions of the film….but first I want to tell you about the book.

I, like so many others, grew up reading Sendak’s “Where the Wild Things Are”.  It was a book I made sure was in my children’s library, one that I read often to them.  I have always interpreted the book in this way:  Max, as most young kids, made mischief- annoyed his mother one too many times and was sent to bed without supper.  I love that he uses his imagination to create a whole world to play in, a place where he fits in.  Max is in a mood to be wild, so he imagines a world that is filled with “wild things”- a place where he can be wild and not get in trouble.  Eventually Max burns off his energy, maybe feels remorse for his behavior to his mother and returns home.  Home, to find his warm dinner waiting for him, which he eats with a smile on his face.

To me, it has always been a book about a boy being- well, a boy!  Taking his boyish rough-housing too far, being sent to his room to calm down, which in his own time he does, and then is able to return to his life.

I think it is important to understand my background with the book to understand my opinion of the film.  The film starts out with Max and his sister alone at home in the winter.  Max is trying to get his sisters attention, but she’s too busy talking on the phone and ignores him.  Long story short his sisters friends show up, destroy Max’s fort and leave him crying…his sister does nothing and drives off with the friends.  Max is hurt and angry and lashes out by destroying his sisters room.

I found myself constantly leaning over to my 7 year old explaining what was going on, “Max is crying because his feelings are hurt”;”Max is messing up his sisters room because his feelings are hurt that she did nothing and he feels angry”…. and so on through out the WHOLE film!

Basically Max is an emotionally messed up little boy, seems he is still reeling from his parent’s divorce.  He is upset about his Mother’s new boyfriend and clearly doesn’t know how to express himself (as most children in that situation don’t).  When he finally gets to the land of the “Wild Things”, they are just as messed up as he is!  I think unraveling who each of the “Wild Things” represent would be a child psychologists dream come true!  Each character represented (IMO) an emotion that Max was dealing with or a person in his life.

The story line was disjointed (if there was much of one), the film has a depressing and sad feel to it.  The only time my son actually laughed and enjoyed the film was during the snowball fight and the dirt clod fight.  He was mildly interested in the fort building, but mostly he kept asking us (starting about 20 min into the film), “how much longer until the movie is over?”.

This is NOT a children’s movie.  I think the only kids who might actually grasp some of the context of this film would be teenagers, however I don’t think teenagers are going to attend this film when they can watch the latest Vampire Sexcapade.  This film is meant for adults plain and simple.  The soundtrack is fantastic and Jonze has an artistic interpretation of the book, I think this movie (again, IMO) will get it following as a cult classic, but not as a family film.

Personally, I’m not sure why they chose to turn a classic piece of children’s literature into a somewhat dark adult themed film, but they did.  After reading this LA Times article on Sendak the man, it is clear that he himself is an unhappy individual, which I am sure translates into why he signed off on the screen-play.  The book had the potential to be a fantastic film meant for children, it could have been a fun film, filled with hope and wonder about childhood- while still retaining it’s “non- disney” appeal.

That’s my 2 (or 12!) cents on the film.  Did you see it, did you bring your kids?  What did you think?

8 Responses to “Where the Wild Things Are”

  1. karin says:

    I am glad I read this. We were talking about taking the boys to see it but I have been dragging my feet and now I am glad I dragged my feet.

  2. Kelly says:

    I went with my niece on Sunday and I was also SO disappointed. She’s twelve so we sat through it with me telling her OFTEN that his behavior was very inappropriate. If she’d have been a little kid I would never have stayed. Such a let down when the book is SO good… :( I hate it when they mess up the good things… :(

  3. Jill - GlossyVeneer says:

    Interesting review… The previews for this movie have kind of been intriguing to me because they seemed very much geared toward adults who would remember this from their youth. I thought perhaps that was to get parents to take their kids to see it, but maybe that approach was a little bit due to how the film was produced. I’m sure my husband and I will see it (probably Netflix), but I really appreciated reading your 12 cents on the film!

  4. Steph says:

    Apparently a lot of the movie had to be reshot after the test screening terrified a lot of kids and the trailer looks….not bad but not good either. I’m sure I’ll watch it eventually out of curiousity but I prefer the great childrens story in the book.

  5. raygon says:

    I also loved this book and interpreted it just the way you did…he goes to his room to calm down and gets caught up with his wild imagination and then is ready to come back to real life.

    I have not wanted to see this movie, and am glad to hear your review on it. Some things are better left alone. (they should have just let this a book)

    I am also surprised how many of my friends have taken their little kids to see it (kids the same ages as mine 2 and 4) They have been RAVING about how great the movie was and how much their kids liked it.

    Thanks for your opinion. When it comes out on video, I think I will watch this with my husband while our kids are in bed.

  6. Mama Rose says:

    I didn’t take my daughter and didn’t think it looked like a children’s movie – definitely intended for adults. I thought the movie was absolutely beautiful. I didn’t find it depressing at all, but rather a very clear-eyed look at what it feels like to be a kid. Yes, Max had some specific issues that maybe made him act out more than other kids, but I don’t think he was emotionally messed up at all. I think every child feels that lonely, that confused, and that wild at some point. I thought it perfectly captured the confusion, yearning and possibility of childhood. So, um, yeah I liked it. :)

  7. Emily says:

    I did not grow up on the book – my husband did – but I interpret it in the same way.

    A friend told me essentially what you just stated in your review – that this is not a kid’s movie, that it’s rather dull and a bit much for kids. My oldest is 5, and I had considered taking him, but now…no. I had my doubts anyway. The previews are beautiful though.

    Thanks again for the giveaway pattern. I hope to stitch it up very soon for a Christmas gift!

  8. Marci says:

    I’ve seen the movie and really enjoyed it. I took a bunch of boys with us, the oldest one of them is nine years old. My seven year old who is a thinker grasped a lot of the sadness and rebellion and the reason why Max would have those feelings.

    I explained to him that when Max was placed in the role of the king, he realized that it wasn’t easy being in charge of everybody else’s happiness. Just like for Max’s mom, it wasn’t easy to always do the right thing.

    I think it’s OK to expose children to feelings that are not always positive. Sorry, that’s my humble opinion. I just wanted to offer a different perspective.

    By the way, the younger kids who watched with us thought the movie was too long but the “monsters were cool” :-)

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